A standing hour, in person or on a call, for people who want to keep talking to the same person over a long stretch.
An hour, on a rhythm that suits you — weekly at the sharpest points, monthly through the long flat middle. In person if you are close enough, on a call if you are not.
This is not therapy and it is not coaching. I have no assessment to run you through and no outcome picked out for you in advance. What I do is stay in the conversation long enough to hear what you keep circling back to, ask the question nobody has asked you yet, and say plainly when something sounds like it is ending.
Who this tends to fit. People a long way into a threshold rather than at the front edge of one — a year past the ending, still not through it, tired of explaining the situation from scratch to someone new each time.
What happens after you write. We start with one conversation and no commitment past it. If it is worth continuing, you will know, and so will I. How often, for how long, and what it costs all get settled between us afterwards, out loud.
That link opens a message to Jesse with this in the subject line. Nothing is booked or charged from it — he reads it and writes back.